Neile Friedman

Two years ago, I would have never understood what I'm about to say tonight.

It is truly a privilege to be a survivor.

We are a special community. I've learned that there is a lot of commonality in our lives. I think we've learned to look to the future with a keener eye. We've learned to appreciate our days more fully, with a greater awareness and appreciation for simple pleasures.

So many of us were defined in terms of raising our families and pursuing our careers. And for most of us that's still part of the equation. And yes, the lucky ones among us also found some time to feed our souls. I was fortunate to fit into my life my passion for gardening.

But it wasn't until I was diagnosed, had my breast operation and rounds of chemotherapy/radiation treatments that I really understood the power of the garden, its beauty; its life giving and renewing characteristics.

I also learned what it means to be a part of a survivor community. I don't think we can allow ourselves to take anything for granted. I think we've come to understand and appreciate relationships better and to work to make them fuller and more sustaining.

During this period I gained a deeper understanding of selflessness and the true spirit of giving. Today, I realize how vital were the gifts I received from survivor givers like Leslie Ries, who offered up so naturally hope and guidance at my pace.  This has reminded me how much the human touch can mean.