Kathy Matava

I’d like to think that over time I have learned to live more fully and compassionately. Like all of us I have had my share of difficulties and having breast cancer has not been my greatest challenge. I was very lucky. My gynecologist discovered it during a routine examination and the tumor was tiny. Of course, I freaked out at first but I quickly came to realize that my cancer could be treated effectively with a lumpectomy and radiation. My vanity was not threatened by the loss of my hair and I felt like I dodged a big bullet. I later watched a friend suffer endlessly from seven years of almost constant chemo and radiation.

She finally gave up this world and I will never forget my last visit with her. She was doing her best to provide a future for the two children she would soon leave behind. My heart still aches for her. She was a beautiful warrior, engaged in matters of life and death. We are all called to be this kind of warrior. How wonderful it is to celebrate our good fortune together at this event. It reminds me to do my best; to consider what really matters, and appreciate this life.